Topics for Discussion as You Read "Mommy Wars"

As you read Steiner's book, think about the conflicts mothers feel whether they work inside or outside the home. Are the "mommy wars" truly in women's heads, as Steiner has pointed out in interviews? Or is the use of "mommy wars" media hype used to sell books and create ratings? Does it distract us from the real issue that our society doesn’t value and leaves no room for the important work of mothering and fathering?

Other topics for conversation:

1. What are some real trends you see happening among mothers that should be covered by the media?
2. What irritates you most about the media's current coverage of mothers? If we want to influence the media's coverage of mothers and families, what is the best way to grab its attention and influence it?
3. Does the same apply to getting the attention of policymakers so they work toward supporting mothers and families?
4. What state or local policy changes would help you most in your role as a parent? (ie: after-school programs, paid family leave, uniform healthcare, free preschool programs, a ban on having to work overtime, right to paid sick leave, etc.). Dare to Dream and Think Big! Other important members of society don't hesitate to ask for what they need!
5. Why do you think that up to now mothers have been reluctant to demand public policies that would make their lives and the lives of their children easier?